Shakira Mebarak

What Girls Expect From A Boyfriend.

**What girls expect from a boyfriend**

• Women are over all more emotional than most men are therefore, most girls prefer serious relationships over one time date or a one night stand. If you want to impress your girl friend than you have to make her feel that you are very fond of her and are looking for a long term relationships. Here are some of the things that you can do to impress your girl friend.
• Be very well dressed each time you meet her, especially the shoes should be well polished or neatly tied up and don't forget to put on a nice manly perfume. Some of the things that you must not overlook while dressing up are your waist belt, wrist watch and of course your hair. If possible, carry a latest cell phone.
• Always praise her and tell her how beautiful she is, she has nice hair or impressive eyes, a nice long neck. This tip is sure to work because girls like to hear good things about them all the time.
• Don't hurry into getting physical with her, girls usually don't like men who try to get physical in the first few meetings itself. Give time to your relationship, make her feel that its her that you like and being physical is secondary.
• Each time you meet her, take a gift for her, it could be flowers, a nice box of chocolates, a wrist watch or just anything that you think that she might like.
• Girls love romantic movies, romantic books and a romantic Boy friend. Therefore try to show her that you are a romantic person, tell her that you like to go on long drives on a rainy day or love watching the sunset, candle light diners and stuff like that.
• Always take your girl friend to a nice upscale restaurants and don't forget your table manners for example, pull the chair for the lady, call the waiter in style, leave a good tip after the meal. If you cannot effort to take her to an expensive place, take her to a locally owned restaurant because they tend to provide a more personal touch and a better customer service than most food chains.
• Women get impressed by men who know how to cook. Show her your cooking talent by inviting her for lunch or dinner and cook a nice meal along with a very good presentation. You could put on some nice romantic music and start with a candle light dinner and then a soft dance.
• Never disagree with her on any point and always say yes. Once a military lieutenant colonel was asked about the secret of his 35 years of happy married life, he said that he always said "yes mamm, you are absolutely right".
• Call her once during the day to tell her that you are thinking of her. Appear genuine and confident in whatever you say. Pay attention when she is talking. Girls like surprises, although they love expensive gifts but smaller/cheaper gifts tend to do the magic too. Tell her how you love her smile or the way she laughs. Tell her that she is lucky for you. Take her out on a date at midnight on a full moon night to lay down and look at the stars.
• Guys usually hate shopping, but girls love it, so hold your breath and take her for shopping.
• If she happens to be a mom of a kid, remember it is more important to impress her kid even than the girl.
• Impressing girls can be tough, but with a little preparation you can do a much better job. Good Luck.

સપના રૂપે ય આપ ન આવો

સપના રૂપે ય આપ ન આવો નજર સુધી
ઊડી ગઈ  છે  નીંદ હવે  તો  સહર સુધી

મારા હ્રદયને પગ નીચે  કચડો નહીં તમે
કે ત્યાંના માર્ગ જાય છે ઈશ્વરના ઘર સુધી

શ્રદ્ધાની  હો  સુવાસ  પ્રતિક્ષાનો   રંગ  હો
એવાં  ફૂલો  ખીલે છે  ફક્ત પાનખર સુધી

આંખોમાં આવતાં જ એ વરસાદ થઈ ગયા
આશાનાં ઝાંઝવાં જે  રહ્યા'તાં  નજર સુધી

મૈત્રીનાં  વર્તુળોમાં   જનારાની    ખેર    હો
નીકળી નહીં એ નાવ જે પહોંચી ભંવર સુધી

ઉપકાર  મુજ  ઉપર  છે  જુદાઈની  આગનો
એક તેજ  સાંપડ્યું  છે  તિમિરમાં સહર સુધી

મંઝિલ  અમારી  ખાકમાં  મળતી ગઈ  સદા
ઊઠતા  રહ્યા  ગુબાર  અવિરત  સફર  સુધી

'બેફામ'  તો  યે   કેટલું   થાકી   જવું  પડ્યું
નહિ તો જીવનનો માર્ગ છે ઘરથી કબર સુધી

Idea About Your Date

*Go to the movie
This is a terrific first date idea. Everybody likes watching movies. It's fun, entertaining, and it is not necessary to be alone with the person. There is even a possibility to save your money. You could go on a cheap day of the week for example. The only problem is that you can't talk during the show. On the other hand it makes a great first date for those people who are too shy. Comedies are a sure winner since everyone likes to laugh and it's a great conversation piece for afterwards.



*Dances
This is one of the most popular first dates.It is inexpensive, then you can have fun dancing and also have great conversations. Finaly, you will be surrounded by the people you are familiar with so it will make things much more comfortable. This is a great first/second date idea that can be used either by a girl or a guy.


*Go to the Zoo
This is one of the greatest ideas for a first date. It's inexpensive, fun and a great conversation piece. You can make up lots of things to talk about while doing through all the different exhibits


*Parties
If you both know the person who is hosting the party or if you both know some other people who will be there it will turn out to be one of the best meetings in your life. If there aren't any parties around you could create one yourself? You can have a video party, beer party or even have a pizza party where everyone can make or bring their own pizza. You could combine such party with a picnic in the open air if the weather is good enough.

First Date Romantic Dinner

You can make a classic first date. You will have to spend some money for this date but it can help you to make for a romantic evening. If you want to get to know someone more intimately then this is the best way to do it. The main problem is that you will have to make up some topics to talk about for an extended period of time beforehand. If this is a problem for you then I suggest you ask your friends to help you. You could ask friends of opposite sex for a piece of advice about what to say, how to behave etc

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            નજરનાં જામ છલકાવીને ચાલ્યા ક્યાં તમે
 જીગરને આમ તરસાવીને ચાલ્યા ક્યાં તમે

 તમને બોલાવે પ્યાર,  તમે ઊભા રહો
 દિલના ખુલ્લા છે દ્વાર, તમે ઊભા રહો
 જરા ઊભા રહો, જરા ઊભા રહો

 જીવનને આંગણે આવીને ચાલ્યા ક્યાં તમે
 નજરનાં જામ છલકાવીને ચાલ્યા ક્યાં તમે

 મારી થઈ ગઈ છે ભૂલ,  મને માફ કરો
 મેં તો આપ્યા છે   ફૂલ,  મને માફ કરો
 મને માફ કરો, મને માફ કરો

 પ્રણયના ફૂલ કરમાવી ને ચાલ્યા ક્યાં તમે
 નજરનાં જામ છલકાવીને ચાલ્યા ક્યાં તમે

 થઈને પૂનમની રાત તમે આવ્યાં હતા
 થઈને જીવન પ્રભાત તમે આવ્યાં હતા
 તમે આવ્યાં હતા, તમે આવ્યાં હતા

 વિરહની આગ સળગાવીને ચાલ્યા ક્યાં તમે
 નજરનાં જામ  છલકાવીને ચાલ્યા ક્યાં તમે

 નજરનાં જામ છલકાવીને ચાલ્યા ક્યાં તમે
 જીગરને આમ તરસાવીને ચાલ્યા ક્યાં તમે

How To Impress A Girl

How To Impress A Girl

• 1. Now the first step is the most simple-play a sport. I don't care what you play, even rugby and golf. As long as girls know that you play a sport and don't sit all day in your dark room playing final fantasy, dungeons and dragons, and world of warcraft. Carry a football, basketball, or baseball glove around school a couple times out of the week. Also, if you're not exactly the sports type, try considering learning to play an instrument. Girls love a guy who can play guitar or piano. You don't know how much this attracts a girl. I mean, a girl would rather have a smart, fat, baseball player than a smart, fat world of warcraft geek.
• 2. Now, find out if she is single. It really sucks to do all of these steps for a girl who already has a boyfriend that she loves.
• 3. Too many guys make the mistake of thinking that if you can burp for more than twenty seconds, than a girl will fall in love with him. Impress her with your brains, act smarter and more mature than those other idiots. But don't come off as a geek or nerd.
• 4. Act charming. Have witty conversations with the girl.
• 5. Know the latest fashions, trends, music, movies, and tv shows. Pick up a newspaper or a magazine and read through all of the sections. Get a general knowledge of what is going on in today's teen world so you will have a lot to talk about.
• 6. Make friends with everyone. Be the guy who everyone sits around and listens to. Be the all around guy. Be able to talk to the goths, jocks, popular kids, geeks, and everyone else. She will feel way more comfortable around you knowing that you are cool with everyone you know, instead of being the geek in the back of the classroom who has no friends.
• 7. Find out what you both have in common, and make sure that she knows that you two have the same likes and dislikes.
• 8. Make her feel really comfortable around you. Make sure that she knows that she is able to come to you with any problems that she might be having in her life. Also, make sure that she knows that not only can you listen to her problems, but you can also solve her problems, or maybe at least just come up with ideas to help her solve them. Be warned, however. Offering advice is one thing, but girls don't talk about their problems to someone because they want that person to try and solve them all. They want someone who will listen, first and foremost.
• 9. Now here's the big step. Ask her out to a movie, or to lunch. If she feels the same way that you feel about her, then she will most likely say yes.